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How Sighted Members Describe Themselves for Visually Impaired Matches
If you can see the screen, photos are doing roughly 70% of your dating-app communication for you. When you match with a blind or low-vision person, that 70% needs to move into words - and most sighted daters have never been asked to do it before. Here's how members who match across vision difference describe themselves well.
Lead with sensory details, not just appearance
Hair color matters. Voice quality, laugh, what you smell like (cedar, citrus, fresh laundry, espresso), how you take up space in a room, the texture of your favorite sweater - these matter more. A profile that reads "I'm 5'10", auburn hair, light eyes" gives a screen reader almost nothing. A profile that adds "my laugh is louder than my voice and people say I smell like cardamom and old books" gives a partner something real to imagine.
"I'm 6'1", broad shoulders, short black hair I'm growing out, a beard I trim on Sundays. My voice is low and a little gravelly - friends say bedtime-radio voice. I move slowly, take up space when I sit. I smell like sandalwood soap and woodsmoke from the fireplace I cannot stop building fires in. I laugh easily and quietly."
- Sample profile bio written for visually impaired matches
Describe your photos, don't just upload them
The platform's AI generates a base audio description for every photo, but the most successful sighted members add their own one-line caption: "This is me on my brother's wedding day - I am crying and trying not to." A photo without context is just pixels; a photo with a written caption is a story. Blind members tell us the caption is what they actually remember, not the image.
Use specific verbs about the way you move
"Active" tells a screen reader nothing. "I walk fast, I hate elevators, I take stairs two at a time, I get fidgety on long phone calls" gives a partner a body to picture. Movement words travel across vision difference far better than adjectives about how you look.
Treat your voice intro as your real first impression
If you can record one, do. Visually impaired members open voice intros at three times the rate they open photo galleries. A relaxed 30-second hello - not a pitch, not a sales line - is the single highest-converting profile element for sighted members on this site.